A Minute of Mindfulness

 

Below is a 3-minute article by Elisa Boxer on finding a mindful minute anywhere, at any time throughout your day.  Slowing my day and my life down has been on the front of my mind for a couple years now.  This is a great way to actually do it.

— Find a simple physical sensation and focus on that sensation.
— Don’t go further with the thought, just enjoy the sensation.
— Learning to be aware of a wandering mind is the first step.  Much like learning to get out of The Gap (see Rule #10 from my book The Fantastic Life) is a huge step.

Right now, as I type, I am feeling the keys on my keyboard in a different, more mindful way.  It’s amazing the change this practice can bring to your life, and the speed of that change.

Namaste,

PS – Here’s a quote I love – “It is extremely difficult to stay alert and attentive, instead of getting hypnotized by the constant monologue inside your own head (may be happening right now).”- David Foster Wallace. Kenyon College, May 21, 2005

Rule #10 from my book The Fantastic Life: Stay Out of The Gap
The Gap (that place between where you are and where you want to be) can only be crossed if you have focus. Learning to calm a wandering mind or take a moment to breathe and reassess, will help you stay determined on your goal.

 

Here’s How To Find A Minute Of Mindfulness Anywhere

You can practice this super-simple meditation throughout the day.

By: Elisa Boxer

05.29.17

Everyone’s mind wanders.

Mindfulness is paying attention to what’s happening in the present moment. So if you’re aware that your mind is wandering, you’re halfway to a successful mindfulness practice.

The other half of mindfulness is gently returning your attention back to the here and now. But this doesn’t mean you have to yank your misbehaving mind back to reality. Instead, think of it as a compassionate return to consciousness. Picture a feather on the ground, lifted up by a gust of wind and then floating back down to rest on the pavement.

Wandering. Awareness. Return.

PRACTICING A MINUTE OF MINDFULNESS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE

And here’s something cool: The easiest tool for achieving that gentle return to the present moment is always available to you. Focus on one single physical sensation.

It could be feeling your back against the chair, your hand holding the fork, your finger on the touch screen.

The key is to aim all of your awareness directly at one physical sensation of your choice.

Pick one part of your body that’s in contact with an object. Let’s say it’s your feet on the floor. Pour all of your awareness right down into the soles of your feet. What’s the sensation there? Are your feet resting on the floor lightly, or are they pressing against it? Now wiggle your toes a bit, and notice how the sensation changes. Are you wearing socks? If so, can you feel the fabric against your feet?

If you had to assign a feeling to this sensation, would it be pleasant?Unpleasant? Neutral? This is all about noticing what is, rather than making a relative comparison to anything that you are not experiencing right now.
All we’re focusing on is the feeling.

See? That took all of a minute. And you weren’t ruminating on the past or fretting about the future. It’s impossible to be fully present in your body with a wandering mind. If you pick the presence, the mind can’t meander.

Wandering. Awareness. Return.

WHEN YOUR MIND WANDERS

When you notice your mind drifting, give yourself a pat on the back for being aware.

Gently return to the here and now by choosing one part of your body that’s in contact with something else. Feel everything about it. Be a physical sensation detective and say things to yourself like: “I feel my fingers grabbing the steering wheel pretty tightly,” or, “I’m noticing the slight weight of these glasses resting on the bridge of my nose,” or, “This chair feels kinda hard under my backside.”
Don’t follow that last statement with a thought like: “I really should get a new chair,” since that’s not a physical sensation and could lead to less feeling and more thinking thoughts like, “I need to earn more money before buying a new chair,” which sends rumination an invitation to join you. But by all means, if you discovered through this mindfulness exercise that your current chair hurts your bottom, go ahead and spring for a new one.

Wandering. Awareness. Return.

WHY MINDFULNESS MATTERS

I know this might all seem ridiculously simple. And it is. It’s the mind that complicates things when it takes us out of the here and now. So making the choice to pay attention to how you’re feeling in the moment is a crucial first step to actually being in the moment, which will increase productivity and focus.
It will also make you happier. In a study published in the journal Science, Harvard researchers found that people spend nearly half their waking hours thinking about something other than what they are doing at that moment, and that this distraction from the task at hand “typically makes them unhappy.”

When we’re fully present, we’re better communicators. We’re less reactive and more responsive to the people around us, at home and at work.

We’re also more fully here for ourselves, since we’re in better touch with how we feel and what we need.

And by gently returning our awareness back to the present moment when we notice it has wandered off, we begin to feel a bit more in control in a world where so much is out of our control.

Elisa Boxer is a Columbia-trained, Emmy Award-winning journalist. She’s also a health advocate and mindfulness coach. Follow her on twitter at @eboxer and visit her website at Elisaboxer.com.